If you have started reading this thinking that I will
present to you a set of instructions on how to be in a happy and successful relationship, or steps on how to keep you
partner happy, then, I must warn you
that I am the last person to be preaching such things! Since my mother will be
reading this, I have never had a relationship. But hypothetically speaking,
even if I have had them, then I have never given them enough priority to study
them that intently.
Hence, the
instructions for manipulating a relationship is for commercial magazines and
tabloids to take care of. My words are more concerned with aspects deeper or
rather more significant in an individual’s life. Matters concerning that little
thing called happiness.
So why the
word relationship in the title you ask. Sadly, I have come to observe that,
with the rise in the population of this planet, there is an equal rise in the
feeling of loneliness amongst us beings. The more faces we see around us, the
more alone we feel. Ironic! All of us are after something or the other, aren’t
we? Money, smartphones, love, lust, God, new Jimmy Choo shoes, what not.(If you
aren’t one of these then I must say I’m very pleased) We are looking to relate
to something… anything to gain a certain sense of satisfaction in our souls,
simply called peace!
But are we
satisfied? Are we happy? Are we at peace? If we were, then I wouldn’t be
writing this article and you wouldn’t be reading it.
A new
boyfriend or a girlfriend is certainly not going to change that cycle of
pain-joy-pain that is eternal. YES! Sorry to break that bubble, but a new anything won’t make you happy, Unless….
Unless you learn to be happy from the inside. Today
a lover’s hug might give you the warmth and delight you crave for, but no
celestial being can assure you that it will remain with you always. When your
happiness is dependent on something or
someone, it is next to impossible to
say that it will remain with you forever. Simple logic isn’t it?
Peace is
when you are happy when you are stripped of everything that you have today.
Your family, your friends, you lover, your new phone, your big car, your credit
cards, your everything! The day you can say with confidence that “I am happy no
matter what or who leaves me”, then that is the day that you are truly HAPPY!
Now, you know the secret.
Be happy
with nothing, then even losing everything can’t take away your happiness!
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